Advice for talking to girls

  1. malidan
    Nougat Oct 3, 2014

    malidan , Oct 3, 2014 :
    Geezer the knock backs makes you stronger and improves ur confidence. For every 3 that say no 1 will say yes, the ones that dont wanna play still always say hi and see the fruits that brings in the future
    because they do have friends. ;)
    So don't have any fears just get on with it, the more girls you know, the more you will get to know.

  2. vivankka
    Ice Cream Sandwich Oct 3, 2014

    vivankka , Oct 3, 2014 :
    If you are normal ... just be natural. Don't put up a facade ... honesty goes a long way. Good luck ...

  3. jokicha
    Jelly Bean Oct 3, 2014

    jokicha , Oct 3, 2014 :
    you can start by talking to people in general to get yourself used to human interaction. stuff like "finally friday" "anything planned for the weekend?" are easy starters but of course theyll only work on fridays lol. on mondays you could say "hows your weekend?" or "weekend was too short" or purposely forget a pen/pencil/calculator/paper and ask your classmates if they have any spares. just start with small interactions like that then naturally youll become more comfortable talking to people in general. (boys and girls lol)

  4. monkeyboy
    Honeycomb Oct 3, 2014

    monkeyboy , Oct 3, 2014 :
    It's easy, follow my three step process.

    Step 1 - Preparation and equipment - Build yourself a basement which can only be unlocked from outside and has not other exists, ideally in a secluded area. The basement will need to large enough and should have wash room and sleeping facilities. Also procure yourself an baseball bat, large sack (ideally one that can fit a person up to 6ft), fake drivers licence and rent a van using fake licence. The van will need to have blacked out windows.

    Step 2 - Insist on a girl to come and visit you as the basement - During this step you'll need to scout the area for suitable girls who fits your choice and plan for a place to stop and talk to her. Then comes the fun part. Try to follow the girl of your choice in the van and when she's at a secluded location insist that she gets in the bag that you have procured earlier. You can use the baseball bat to encourage her in to the bag. Then put her in the Van and drive to your basement.

    Step 3 - Talk to her all you like - Do not let her out of the bag until you get her in the basement. Then let her out and enjoy talking to her. :D

    P.S. Do not forget to feed her and get her new cloths. Also take precautions when you are with her, she may attack you and try to escape.

    Hope this helps. :D

    On a serious note, just get out more and talk to people in general. More you do it, you'll develop more confidence and will get the opportunities talk to girls. Just don't be a creep, I mean try to please everyone. You can't. Just speak your mind and you'll offend some people but some will like what you have to say and would want to hang out with you.
    Last edited: Oct 3, 2014

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  5. oneplusdesire
    Honeycomb Oct 3, 2014

  6. mikeneedsaphone
    Gingerbread Oct 3, 2014

  7. Esera
    Honeycomb Oct 3, 2014

    Esera , Oct 3, 2014 :
    Say hi and then you'll see if she is interested (info from a girl)

  8. mitoman
    Eclair Oct 3, 2014

    mitoman , Oct 3, 2014 :
    well girls like confident guys so dont doubt yourself and be comfortable, no one enjoys an awkward conversation. also good questions are a smooth way to start a conversation, but dont have the entire conversation planned out in your head

  9. houckmd2
    Eclair Oct 3, 2014

    houckmd2 , Oct 3, 2014 :
    Don't over complicate it in your head. Walk up and talk to her, as a friend. Don't be worried quite yet about her being your future gf or wife or what nots, you'll just freak yourself out

  10. Thomasgong
    Gingerbread Oct 4, 2014

  11. sleepdragonone
    KitKat Oct 4, 2014

    sleepdragonone , Oct 4, 2014 :
    Use your OPO to slap on the one that tell you no, and move on....hehe....

  12. Jess1
    Froyo Oct 4, 2014

    Jess1 , Oct 4, 2014 :
    Naughty man! Giving people ideas... I wasn't allowed to handcuff my boyfriend to the radiators during the day while I went to work so I don't think prospective girlfriends can be chucked into a basement :p

  13. BadLuck
    Froyo Oct 4, 2014

    BadLuck , Oct 4, 2014 :
    It all depends on what you want and the type of girl your're after...

    At your stage being in college just go out for drinks with a group of friends. Liquid confidence will kick in and you won't have a problem talking. In my experience, a large percentage of college girls like to drink, party and have no commitments. Just enjoy the college life.

    Get serious about a relationship when life gets serious. You're in a learning/development stage of life seeking out a relationship should be the least of your concerns just go have some fun.

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  14. emeute
    Honeycomb Oct 4, 2014

    emeute , Oct 4, 2014 :

    Those organic relationships are the best.

  15. Jess1
    Froyo Oct 4, 2014

    Jess1 , Oct 4, 2014 :
    Here's the thing @Thomasgong, what if she turns out to be a complete *****? Just because you like the look of someone doesn't mean they're going to be a nice person.
    (Unless you've been stalking them and you know every detail about their lives, then by all means, crack on)
    The main thing is not to over complicate things. We build up all these expectations in our heads and reality is often very far from what we've imagined. Just relax.
    Don't just go up to a girl and ask her out, that's weird. Go up to a girl and start a conversion with the aim to get to know her.

  16. santosh krishh
    Honeycomb Oct 4, 2014

    santosh krishh , Oct 4, 2014 :
    just be yourself and dont tease or make any joke on them for the first time.
    :) ;)
    but note sthg here
    "u r going to experience heaven and hell at the same time"
    it may fight or may be love.
    trust me you dont wanna face it

  17. Thomasgong
    Gingerbread Oct 4, 2014

  18. valzeon
    Froyo Oct 4, 2014

    valzeon , Oct 4, 2014 :
    Well said! Firstly be yourself. Dont be afraid of getting rejected. That will already happen in your life if you want it or not. Be first of all have fun! Thats what you should always try to do when talking to other human beings. Have fun

  19. Ayushya
    Honeycomb Oct 4, 2014

  20. Jerzyk
    Honeycomb Oct 4, 2014

    Jerzyk , Oct 4, 2014 :
    Wtf r u doing here?