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Going through a break-up

  1. dmalvarado
    Froyo Aug 26, 2014

    dmalvarado , Aug 26, 2014 :
    So Im currently going though a break up and I was wondering if anyone has any advice of how I can get over it and not feel so shitty. HOW DO YOU NOT LOVE SOMEONE.
     

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  2. bkk
    Gingerbread Aug 26, 2014


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  3. huzzyz
    Honeycomb Aug 26, 2014

    huzzyz , Aug 26, 2014 :
    You don't get over it. Its the truth. You just move on. It takes a while but you move on.
     

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  4. ath891
    Honeycomb Aug 26, 2014

    ath891 , Aug 26, 2014 :
    The best way of getting over someone, is getting under someone else.
     

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  5. rangler123
    Honeycomb Aug 26, 2014

    rangler123 , Aug 26, 2014 :
    just get involved in life and you will start to see new possibilities and above all else remember there are alot of people who would be happy to be in your position..lol
     

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  6. UnknownSoul
    Jelly Bean Aug 26, 2014

    UnknownSoul , Aug 26, 2014 :
    Time is the only thing that'll fully cure you. There is no instant way. But to speed it up, try not thinking of the other person and occupy your mind with other things. And cutting off contact is a big help.
     

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  7. aj_rangel
    Froyo Aug 26, 2014

    aj_rangel , Aug 26, 2014 :
    From my experience, you do everything in your power to work things out. If it still doesn't work, then at least you can move forward knowing you did all you could that way you will not have any regrets. It's the only thing that help me move forward quickly. Hope it helps..
     

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  8. doburwell
    Honeycomb Aug 26, 2014


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  9. Wrighty
    Jelly Bean Aug 26, 2014


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  10. Marcf68
    Cupcake Aug 26, 2014

    Marcf68 , Aug 26, 2014 :
    Focus on your life, work, friends or family. Time will heal the wounds and love will come again.
     

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  11. momo08
    Donut Aug 26, 2014


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  12. areyesrn
    Ice Cream Sandwich Aug 26, 2014


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  13. Itsinthename
    Gingerbread Aug 26, 2014

    Itsinthename , Aug 26, 2014 :
    Sorry, but I don't have good news for you. You won't for a while. It will take some time though.

    Just go meet some cool nice persons and hang out with them.
    Good luck!
     

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  14. McGill1433
    Gingerbread Aug 26, 2014

    McGill1433 , Aug 26, 2014 :
    Just make a point of having fun. For a little while you will need to force it, and it won't be easy. But one day you will be out and suddenly realize that you are actually enjoying yourself.
     

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  15. Franjo
    Jelly Bean Aug 26, 2014

  16. YaelxDhaene
    Froyo Aug 26, 2014


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  17. XmXmaks
    KitKat Aug 26, 2014

    XmXmaks , Aug 26, 2014 :
    Try jerk-off, then if the feeling is still there you may need to drink/smoke and go hang out with friends instead of sitting infront of the PC.
     

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  18. bluemoncrief
    Froyo Aug 26, 2014

    bluemoncrief , Aug 26, 2014 :
    Agree cut contact until you have time to heal at least! Acknowledge the good and bad bits from the relationship and learn from them. Think about you and the things you really want to do - then get busy! If it was a bad break up it might be worth talking to someone about it to help you move forward! Gosh that was a big post!
    Hope you feel happier again soon :) And good luck
     

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  19. FarManD
    Gingerbread Aug 26, 2014

    FarManD , Aug 26, 2014 :
    I know it's hard - BUT

    & you won't stop loving someone - the love will get paler & paler
     

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  20. Android the Greek
    Jelly Bean Aug 26, 2014

    Android the Greek , Aug 26, 2014 :
    Look at every woman you see and find something good about them.
     

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