A couple years ago after working for a company for over 10 years, my whole working life, and asking for a raise as I was still on minimum wage, the company said they evaluate wages regularly and basically I wasn't worth any more money. That day I went home feeling really low and useless. I'd spent my whole working life slaving for this company, working more hours than I was paid for and helping out others even though it wasn't part of my job description, but that didn't care, to them I was worthless. This was the culmination of many years of feeling excluded by the company, not fitting in with their clique. For example, when I got married I didn't even get a verbal congratulations, yet the rest of the company got cards, presents and parties etc for any reason possible (and yes I chipped in for everyone one of those). When I went on holiday I bought little gifts back for the others, when they went on holiday everyone got a gift but me. I decided there and then that I needed to leave that toxic environment so started applying for other jobs. I ended up with 2 companies fighting over me and getting a 50% raise compared to what I was paid with the previous company, and then a year into working with them they said they wanted to give me a further raise as they really appreciated all my hard work, and in the meantime I heard my old company was going through struggles as they hadn't realised until I left how much I did for them quietly without any fuss and things were now in disarray. The people I work with now are inclusive to all regardless of colour, nationality, religion or sexual orientation and make sure to treat all as equals. The lesson I try to show others, because of these events, is not to let anyone dictate your value. Work your socks off and if you're underappreciated move on, as there will be people out there who will show you how much they value your work, and will lift you up rather than tear you down. I'm now in a position where I'm truly happy and we all work together in harmony, so if you're in the same position, change your situation and hopefully you'll also be able to leave work each day with a sense of satisfaction, not trepidation of having to go back the next day
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